1) There is a mandatory six month “cooling off” period from the time the petition is filed to the time that the divorce is finalized. During that six month period you and your attorney will work with the courts and the opposing party to hammer out the details of the separation. Even if everything is agreed upon before the six month period ends, the divorce cannot be finalized until then.
2) Not all lawyers are created equal: You need a certified family law specialist! Unfortunately many people make the mistake of choosing a lawyer who does not only do family law because he or she is a friend of the family or is offering a bargain price. Divorce law is complicated and messy- you need some

3) California is a “no fault” state when it comes to divorce law. The grounds for divorce are either “irreconcilable differences” or “incurable insanity.” If one spouse is sure that a divorce is wanted, the courts cannot force the couple to reconcile.

4) You must take care of yourself during this stressful time. Even though divorce is much more common these days, it doesn’t change the fact that this may be one of the most stressful periods of your life. Be sure to eat right and exercise so you will have the energy and focus you need for your family and career during this time. By hiring the right attorney, you can rest easier knowing that the legal side of your divorce proceedings are being taken care of by an expert.

5) You must take extra care with your children during this difficult time. They need to be constantly reassured that the divorce is not their fault and that both of their parents still love them very much. It may help to arrange for your children to speak to a counselor or pastor.

one who devotes 100% of their legal practice to family law! You also need to make sure attorney is a certified family law specialist. Unless your attorney is a CFLS, you have no guarantee of his or her expertise.